[ϟ/❅] Do not attempt without being Swedish.
When somebody loves you, they should love you because of who you are. They should accept that you may have some bad points as well as good points. You need to be careful upon entering into a relationship in which the other person wants to change you. A person can change and develop but this should be on their own terms and because they themselves want to change. Sooner or later, changing because you want to please your partner will create problems. If your partner is trying to control your actions, it is a signal that the relationship is not a healthy one.